* Be involved.

* Spend time talking about the pros and cons of the different colleges.

* Let your child know your impressions of the different campuses.

* Let your opinions be known, but let the decision remain with your child.

* You want to know that you are turning control of your child over to the right      people, in both academics and athletics.

* Meet the coaches and staff and measure their character as well.

* Speak with the players and see what they say about the program and how they    treat prospective parents.

* The big picture is that your childs happiness is the most important factor.